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Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Ban gaye ho tum meri dua... ( You have become my blessing!)

Like everyone else, if I know someone reading a palm, I extend my hand very eagerly...Offlate, I don't...but when I was in college, I would do that! My friend Ramya said I would have a very happy marraige and I would find someone who would love me unconditionally. I silently guffawed at it and thought 'yeah right!'...

Little did I know that it would indeed come true! As I see many relationships crumble around with me, even the 'intensely in love couples', it reminds me of how blessed and lucky S and I are, that we found each other. God does love me in his own way...sometimes, he gets angry with me and I have to go through some lows, which is bearable when we are there for each other....to help us tide through it. :-)
S is the perfect balance in our relationship. We (S and I) are a combination of introvert-extrovert, cautious-spontaneous, composed-flustered, mature-child-like, patient-impatient, guarded-expressive, diplomatic -outspoken...so you get the drift. We are absolutely different individuals, which is also the reason that keeps us glued together, maybe...

I love those moments, especially when I see him at the end of a work-day or when he hugs me, I feel like all is picture-perfect in my world! NOONE, but S, can bring that kind of warmth and security in my mind.

A friend of mine tells me I am a sappy wife. Honestly, I don't care what others think of me, to a large extent. No, this is not arrogance. Largely, I know what i want, cherish, treasure and love and I believe in appreciating the good things in life or the wonderful people in my life. I never want to have regrets later in life when I feel why did'nt I tell him how much I love him? Only change in me nowadays is that I simply smile. Earlier, i would get upset. Everybody is entitled to their opinion and so am I ( which i try to keep to myself). PERIOD.

10 comments:

Gowri said...

Hey Janani!
I so eagerly wait for your blogs.. and you dont disappoint me even once. You express so well, I can connect to it so well. I can almost feel what you feel. You make me smile everytime i read your blogs and i would say - "aww thats so sweet!!!" :)
Dont know if you will believe this.. But, I feel that I am so much like you.. when it comes to the "sappy wife" (that your friends opine), I too am so much like that.
I feel very happy for You and Sathya! May your love for each other grow by the day!

Pretty Woman said...

hey gowri, its MY turn to go awwwwww...what a sweet comment! :-) Your comment is so kind and makes me all fuzzy and warm!

I am glad you found someone who makes you sappy in the first place! Wishing you loads of love and happiness back! ;-)

SV said...

aaawwww...that's so sweet (couldn't resist saying that after reading the blog, and the 2 comments before me!)...i couldn't have said it better myself...

Pretty Woman said...

SV,

:-) You deserve all the credit and more darling!

Salil said...

Hi,
You are a very lucky woman. It helps in a relationship if you acknowledge that you are different.
Keep writing.
Cheers,
Salil

zombey_-/\-_ said...

hey...pretty blog u'v got!! :P

check out my blog if u wanna!!

Pretty Woman said...

hey salil,
you are a new visitor! welcome aboard! and yes, I am aware of the fact that am lucky! :-) thank you for your comments.

Pretty Woman said...

hey zombie,
welcome to my blog...thank you for the compliment! I love the new template too.. :-) Your blog looks great too!!

Ritu said...

Hi...I am so happy for you... :-)

Pretty Woman said...

hey ritu,
:-) I appreciate that babes...